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Is your lack of ‘self love’ affecting how much money you have?

Is your lack of ‘self love’ affecting how much money you have?

Is your lack of ‘self love’ affecting how much money you have?hearts

On the day of the year that love to a ‘significant other’ seems to carry more weight, I am sure there are many people out there feeling down today on Valentine’s Day as they don’t have that special ‘someone’ in their life. Whoever felt it necessary to create ‘a day’ across the world to celebrate love needs to be questioned about their intention.  Surely love and appreciation of a partner should be happening everyday, otherwise we are taking them for granted and not showing how we really feel all of the time.  With 365 days in a year, I do question why one day needs to be more special than another.  Love is meant to be expressed all of the time and with everyone we meet – not just our ‘significant other’.

You have a choice about how to feel

For the first time in 10 years, I find myself single on Valentine’s Day.  It is a strange feeling.  I never thought I would be in this position again as I was happily married.  I have two ways to act though.  I can choose to be sad, miserable and depressed or I can choose to be happy and to love myself.  Happiness comes from within, and the more ‘self love’ I give myself, the happier I feel.  Often when I work with my clients, there is a common belief that I have to work with.  It is the ‘I will be happier when’ belief. ‘I will be happier when I have a boyfriend’, ‘I will be happier when I have money’, ‘I will be happier when I have a new car…’ When you start to operate from ‘I will be happy now’, in the moment, your life will change. The happier you are with yourself, you will change your vibration or ‘vibe’ and become more attractive to the universe and you are more likely to attract a new partner when you act this way.  After all, who wants to go out with someone who is sad and miserable.

Self love

By loving yourself more, you feel better. When you feel better, you can manifest more of what you want in life including money.  I decided to celebrate the day today, by taking the day off, starting it with a lie in and a cup of tea and reading my book in bed.  I’ve had a wonderful walk in the Weald of Kent with my dog Charlie followed by a luxurious bubble bath and a manicure. I’ve chatted to friends and I intend to do some cooking this afternoon so that I may have a delicious dinner tonight.  I feel great and best of all, it has not cost me a penny! By being on your own, you have to look for the blessings in disguise and give thanks for these.  Having time on my own allows me to do whatever I want, whenever I want and I answer only to myself.  I can do things my way and in my own time.  It certainly wasn’t this way when I had a ‘significant other’ in my life.  The richness and abundance of life isn’t just about the physical money we have in the bank or our purse, it is the experiences of life all around us.  We live life at such a fast pace now and a lot of it electronically, which means we lose the reality of the simple pleasures in life.  So I challenge you to be ‘happy now’. And if you do have a partner, then I am really pleased for you. Go and spend time with them, appreciate them and love them how you would want to be loved yourself.

If you really would like to know more about attracting in good things into your life including a new partner, a great book to read is ‘A spiritual guide to attracting love’ by Carolyn Boyes.

Want to learn more?

To learn more about how to be abundant in life and to change your attitude to money and the stresses in life, you may wish to use the Money Mindset workbook ‘How to manifest more money into your life’ or come on one of my money mindset workshops/courses.  If you are in debt, don’t worry. One of the workshops is free! I also teach meditation and Reiki on a 1-1 basis. Of course, if you are feeling stressed and need some spiritual guidance, I am more than happy to work with you individually to help you understand the issues you have now and to help you move forward with ease in your business. All information can be found at or you can ring me on 07815 904848 or email #money #moneymindsetworkshops #themoneyattractionangel

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